Tuesday, January 8, 2013


Today I realized how I can truly be a in someone's life. Someone who wants me there even if others don't approve. As said by many, love should stand the test of time. You live life always hoping you'd find that special person. You might feel that spark and think this is the one. And when they don't turn out to be the one you are temporarily crushed. Then you pick up the pieces and start anew.
But then one day you run into someone, whether in person or by means of a chat and there's that spark again. However this time the feeling is completely filled, unlike before. In a way the you never imagined could happen. It's like missing puzzle pieces that suddenly are found and perfectly fit together.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Best weekend ever!!!

Dear blog,
This was the best weekend ever! I met the greatest guy. He's cute, adorable, smart, funny, and sassy. We had coffee and just talked and talked. We didn't want to depart it was so amazing!! There was this instant spark as if we knew each other for a long time.
You know how you have this vision of what the perfect match would be? Well we both feel this is it. It's so comfortable being around him.
Well I just wanted to tell you how happy I am.

Monday, June 11, 2012


Monday. It's going good thus far. Had a great weekend. It seems that its been getting a little more humid the last several days.

All done with classes for now, I'll start back up in Aug. looking forward in getting, hopefully, 2 classes out of the way in the fall.

I wish it was all over and I had my degree in Graphic Design already. But there is much work to be done yet. Working toward a goal is good, for it helps to keep my focus on the prize at the end of the tunnel. I'm so happy and extremely fortunate to have a loving bf to help and guide me on my way.

Looking forward to a great work week, I hope I can get all caught up and down with most of these projects.

Well I know I haven't written in a while but I hope to be more consistent now that school is over.

I'll write more later. Tah tah for now.

Be sure to make any comments. This is an open forum for exchange of thoughts and such.

Good day :0)

Saturday, June 2, 2012


So today in Tulsa is Pride. From my very brief understanding, Pride is an event where the GLBT community come together and celebrate our rich heritage. What does pride mean to you?

This will be my first time at Pride. The road on this journey of my life has been one of wonderful exploration and education. I look forward in a great experience to add to the many good memories I've had.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

It's Wednesday...

Finally another Wednesday has come.

Wednesday is the day of the week that fits right in the middle. Kinda like the cream in an Oreo. Mmmm Oreos and milk, nothing like it. Ok back to what I was saying. Wednesday is like that cool kid at school everyone wanted to hang out with. Wednesday is like that perfect day, not too hot but not too cold. Just right. Many refer to Wednesday as hump day but some how it doesn't feel like it deserves to be called hump day. Well yes it is in the middle of the week. You work hard on Monday and Tuesday, like going up a hill. Then Wednesday comes along and well you kinda find yourself thinking, when will this day ever be over. Then Thursday comes and then it's downhill from there by the time you know it it's Saturday. Wait a minute! Where did Friday go? Friday's are cool days too. Everyone looks forward to a Friday, especially when it's a pay day Friday. Then the party starts. Some even rush to start there weekend early and party on Thursday eve.

Back to Wednesday. If you're like me you like Wednesday's. They don't judge you like a Sunday does. Sunday's are too fast. You wake up on Sunday, whether you like to sleep in or get up early, and by the time you know it your getting back in bed to go to sleep. Sunday's over. The weekends over. Wow that was way too fast! With a Wednesday you know that you have nothing to worry about. Tuesday just left and Thursday will be here before you know it. It's just a constant flow of the week.

Well that's a little bit about Wednesday. Share your thoughts. What do you like or dislike about Wednesday? Is there a day of the week you like more or less than the others?

Now on to other things.
I thought I'd talk about my back ground some.

I grew up in New Jersey and moved to Ok. about 5 years ago. At 19 I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis, a debilitating digestive illness. Then a couple of years ago I had a proctocolectomy. I had my colon removed. This was a cure from the Ulcerative Colitis but every now and then I do have some tummy issues. Life is much better now. My hope is that if you have UC or crohn's disease or another kind of issue please feel free to share your story.

That's all for now. I look forward to hearing from you.

Have a great day!

Alan : 0 )

Tuesday, May 15, 2012


So today is blogging day one.

I decided to start a blog so that I can tell my story.
My blogs may not have a lot of structure but I will try my best to stay on course.

So if you are reading this I invite you to share your thoughts no matter what you think.

It's an open forum.

Happy blogging!

Alan : 0 )